In this issue:
Positive co-parenting courses for parents of neurodiverse children
This programme from Family Lives is designed for parents living together or apart, who are facing conflicts and struggling to find common ground in raising their neurodiverse child. It is a valuable opportunity to enhance relationships, strengthen parenting skills and create a more harmonious home environment. You will get guidance and practical strategies to navigate the unique challenges of raising a neurodiverse child.
These 2 courses will be delivered via MS Teams, over 8 sessions:
- Tuesday 1, 8, 15, 22 October and 5, 12, 19, 26 November, 7pm - 9pm
- Thursday 3, 10, 17, 24 October and 7,14, 21, 28 November, 9.30am - 11.30am
For more information or to make a referral, email services@familylives.org.uk or call 0204 522 8700.
Purple All Stars release new song "See Me"
The Purple All Stars, a performing arts group for people with learning disabilities in Hertfordshire, launched their powerful new song “See me”. Lyrics to the new song resonate with the theme of this year’s Learning Disability Week, which was “Do you see me?” It is all about advocating for individuals with learning disabilities to be seen, heard and valued.
View the video below.
Working innovatively with special schools to create more places

In June, Councillor Caroline Clapper, Executive Member for Education, Libraries and Lifelong Learning, visited one of the most recent special school expansion projects in Hertfordshire. She was joined by Director for Inclusion and Skills, Hero Slinn.
During their visit to the satellite building of Breakspeare school, based at Holywell school in west Watford, Caroline and Hero met the Headteacher, Merja Paakkonen who gave them a tour of the newly refurbished special provision for 48 pupils with complex needs / severe learning difficulties. Merja explained the inclusive opportunities that the satellite provided. By being co-located on a mainstream school site, Breakspeare pupils will have an opportunity to interact with peers within the mainstream setting whilst still having the support they need to access education. Cllr Clapper and Hero had the opportunity to meet some of the school’s new pupils, along with a parent who explained how much her children enjoyed their new school.
The satellite expansion at Breakspeare is an example of how the Council is working together with special schools to increase provision.
Hertfordshire County Council | Working innovatively with special schools to create more places
'Cogs' wellbeing app for neurodiverse young people (ages 14+)
'Cogs' is a wellbeing app created by and for the neurodivergent community. For ages 14+, it can help young people navigate their day, understand more about autism and ADHD and build positive habits.
Register for free access on the Toolbox website
Free online wellbeing groups for neurodivergent and/ or disabled young people (ages 13 - 25)
Young neurodivergent and/or disabled people aged 13-25 (plus those awaiting diagnosis or young people with suspected diagnosis) can join KIDS for free self-care groups, every Thursday 3pm - 4pm throughout summer. Every week will be different. This is a space for you to recharge and reset. Every session you will be able to talk and get to know other young people. These will be safe spaces for peer support and connection so this is the place to share experiences and ask for advice. There will be an opportunity to try different types of movement such as dance, yoga and stretches. We’ll end each session with some mindfulness that might include music and sounds.
All activities are optional and you can join to talk and/or listen only. You will be able to take breaks when you need. All the movements can be adapted to be done from a chair.
In the past, we have run peer support groups on:
- Social anxiety
- Protecting our mental health online
- Boundaries
- Autistic burnout
- Making a self care plan
Young people suggested all the topics above themselves for groups and we are always open to what young people would like to talk to about. The young people have also suggested film and book discussion groups and a group to talk about their special interests, there is no shortage of ideas on what to do moving forward. All of the groups have time for the young people to input on what they want to do next.
The groups can be a really good place to learn about neurodivergence in general and managing your mental health with respect to this and to ask any questions when you are at the start of the diagnostic process.
If you have any questions or want to have a chat about this group, please email Orla at orla.price@kids.org.uk. Orla can also set up meetings with young people 1:1 to provide any support or answer any questions to do with accessing the groups.
View all of the wellbeing groups - Young People's Hub from KIDS
Have your say on a strategy for people with physical disabilities
We are developing a strategy to help people with physical disabilities live connected, active and happy lives and we’d like your help. If you're a Hertfordshire resident, we want to hear from you if:
- you have a physical disability or long-term illness or condition that affects your day-to-day life
- you are a family member, friend or unpaid carer of someone who is physically disabled
- you work with or run community groups for physically disabled people
Have your say by completing the Physical Disability Strategy survey
Get expert health advice this summer with the Healthier Together website

While the arrival of warm temperatures and sunny skies in summer is usually welcome, it’s good to know what health challenges children and families may face this season to help them stay safe when out and about or at home enjoying the sunshine.
Many families may be holidaying abroad or in the UK or planning summery days out. Knowing how to stay safe in the sun and around water will help to reduce stress and worry so you can focus on having fun.
The Healthier Together website can help with useful information and trusted advice, directly from health professionals, on topics including:
- travel vaccinations
- managing allergies, stings and bites
- summer safety including top tips on sun, water and road safety
- helping young people make healthy behaviour choices in relation to alcohol, smoking and drugs.
Visit the Hertfordshire and West Essex Healthier Together website
Events
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Colourscape at Cassiobury Park
17 - 26 August, adults £6, children £4 (with a "quiet day" on 17 August)
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Enter a new world of colour and light. Explore a unique labyrinth of 70 interlinked chambers of intense colours and discover musicians and dancers interacting with you.
For those particularly sensitive to sound, on most days, the earlier and later slots have no music (please check booking pages for separate days in advance). For the whole of 17 August, it is currently ‘non performance, quiet day’ as well.
Introduction to golf (SPACE) at Hanbury Manor golf club, Ware
Sunday 11 August 4.15pm - 5.15pm
Tuesday 27 August 2.45pm - 3.45pm
For ages 7+. Price £13.70. Have a go at hitting golf balls on the range with help and tips from resident professional golfer Glenn Gardiner.
This is an informal fun taster session on Hanbury Manors private driving range. It's a fun afternoon in lovely surroundings for all. No experience is necessary. Golf clubs and balls provided.
Minecraft session (Potential Kids) in Hatfield
Sunday 11 August 1pm - 3pm, £8
This activity is for young neurodiverse people to be able to play Minecraft together and make new friends in a safe environment moderated by Potential Kids.